Private Wealth & Family Law Practice Group
Year-Long Adultery Settled in Three Weeks via a Single Cease-and-Desis…
2026-05-08
1. Facts and Background
Client A (the plaintiff) had confirmed, through information from acquaintances
and message records on the spouse's mobile phone, that an extramarital
relationship between the spouse and a workplace colleague, B (the defendant),
had continued for about one year. Considering child-rearing and her own
employment, Client A did not wish to leave a litigation record; she wished to
maintain the marriage and hold only B legally accountable.
2. Key Legal Issues
The main issues were: (i) how to assess the evidentiary use and limitations of
the messenger records and call logs obtained by Client A; (ii) how, given
Client A's wish to avoid litigation, to design a strategy that placed
cease-and-desist correspondence and settlement at the forefront; (iii) how, in
the event B replied denying the relationship, to organize and convey, on an
objective basis, the legal risks that would arise upon conversion to
litigation, so as to elicit a willingness to settle; and (iv) how to draft,
with care, a settlement agreement that included not only the financial
settlement terms but also confidentiality, no-contact, and non-recurrence
provisions.
3. Implementation and Outcome
LKP (i) reviewed, as a first step, the evidentiary use and limitations of the
messenger records and call logs obtained by Client A; (ii) given Client A's
wish to avoid litigation, adopted a strategy that placed cease-and-desist
correspondence at the forefront, and prepared and dispatched a cease-and-desist
letter clearly setting out the facts of the conduct and the basis of legal
responsibility; (iii) when B's response denied the relationship, organized and
conveyed, on the basis of the available evidence, the specific legal risks that
would arise on conversion to litigation, eliciting a willingness to settle; and
(iv) drafted with care a settlement agreement that included confidentiality,
no-contact, and non-recurrence provisions. A settlement was reached about three
weeks after dispatch of the cease-and-desist letter; Client A obtained payment
of the settlement sum and confidentiality and no-contact undertakings, bringing
the matter to a conclusion without recourse to litigation. The case shows a
settlement-oriented strategy designed around a client's wish for
confidentiality and the preservation of her daily life.






